Life Won’t Wait on the Wounded pt.1

My father in law has a saying he often recites “Life won’t wait on the wounded”. While it may sound harsh at first glance it is indispensable wisdom for a life of victory. Understanding that life doesn’t pause in the midst of our pain empowers us to move forward with the knowledge that even in the darkest moments of life there is light ahead.

As a leader you’re going to face pain. The question is not will life keep moving, but will you? Here are three things to consider when you feel wounded.

A Wound that Neglected Gets Infected

You’re going to get hurt in leadership. No one is exempt from life’s pain. It’s not a question of if; it’s a question of when. We have to mature with thick skin and soft hearts. The most naive mistake we make is to behave like we haven’t ever been wounded.

One summer as a child I was at a friend’s house playing tag on our bikes. My friend and I were hiding quietly behind a car when our hideout was discovered. My buddy went to cycle away and slid his “kick stand” up in such a way that it caught my calf and sliced it open. Quickly they rushed me inside the house and his mom went into nurse mode right away. She cleaned, treated and bandaged the wound the best she could, but in actuality I needed stitches. The band aids she gave me worked for a little while, but a few days later the wound was infected to the point that I had to go to the doctor for help.

As leaders we must not simply put band-aids on areas of our life that require stitches.http://ctt.ec/dbaYb+" src="http://clicktotweet.com/img/bg-twitter.png" />

Are you just trying to cover up your pain? It’s only in exposing the wound and dealing with it that you can bring true healing.  Take time in your life to find rest for your soul. Make it a point to have real friends. Allow yourself to have other hobbies other than things that pertain to your work. Stay in touch with the state of your heart and listen to the nudges that push you towards reflection and renewal.